1 Tim 5:3-5
"Honor widows who are truly widows. But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show godliness to their own household and to repay their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God."
The early Church had a 'roll of widows' — women dedicated to prayer and service ministry. The qualifications: truly widowed (without family), over 60 years old, faithful to her husband, known for good works. The family has the primary responsibility — the Church cares when the family cannot.